9 First Night Myths

The first night for married couples is a thrilling evening. Especially if the wedding via an arranged marriage and not through the stages of dating. Some of the young couple confessed awkward and embarrassed on their first night.

But for other couples, claiming it is difficult making out on the first night because of fatigue after going through the wedding process. Some couples claim to instantly fall asleep without making out like husband and wife on the first night.


Below, are some of the first night of many myths circulating in the community:


1.Myth : Always painful.
This assumption is wrong. First time sex is not always painful. Concerns of many women in the vagina the first night is worried they can not accommodate a large penis when erect.

Pain during intercourse usually occurs because a woman sexually is not ready and the vagina is too tight to accept penetration. The best solution is to do foreplay first so that women become so relaxed and teransang become more receptive vaginal penetration. 


2. Myth: Determinants of Success.
First Night is considered as a determinant of the success of sex in the next night. Often the failure on the first night will fail to cause concern on the next night.

Premature ejaculation or pain in women be imagined in the next nights. Bad experience at the first night will indeed affect the feeling of doing hubunga sex again but the first night of sex is not a critical success at the next night.

3. Myth: Premature Ejaculation is always happening at First Night.Premature ejaculation is a male sexual problems are not always occur on the first night. Premature ejaculation occurs when sexual arousal is too high and difficult to control.
Some people assume that premature ejaculation is common in the first night the first night but not the cause of premature ejaculation.
4. Myth: As great as a blue movie scene.Many people assume that having the first night will be as powerful scene in a porn movie. This assumption is wrong.
It is not even recommended to make a porn movie scene as a reference for sexual success, because the film is not much happening trace and the image cuts.
5. Myth: A large penis, the wife happy.Many people assume that the size affects the satisfaction of wives. And not a bit worried husband at first night when he saw the small size of his penis.
Fact: In essence instead of the penis that can satisfy your partner. Rather, violence penis itself. When the penis is big but can not have sex with both, it is quite premature ejaculation may actually happen.
6. Myth: Always delicious.Many people assume that sex is enjoyable, so when the first night must be passed with a happy feeling.
The fact, not a few couples who feel disappointed on their first night. They imagine the beauty of sex due to unfamiliarity of sexuality properly.
7. Myth: Blood virgin.Virgin blood, it is anticipated many men on their first night. When the wife does not bleed deemed no longer a virgin. This myth is very misleading. Virginity has nothing to do blood coming out. This myth makes many women became concerned at first night. they are not afraid to bleed and fear are considered not a virgin anymore.
8. Myth: You can tear the hymen is a sign of success.Not necessarily the hymen can tear the first night. According to Nugroho, just tear the hymen during the first night is a sign of failure on the wife's sexual response. That is, in fact perfect wife is not aroused when penetration occurs.
9. Myth: Must be strong medicineMedicines and potions to enhance sexuality is not recommended if not required. If on the first night, my husband already use these drugs then surely if he was not ready psychologically to have sex at first night